Emotional literacy is the first step to self awareness.

How to Improve Emotional Intelligence through EQ Activities
Activities to develop emotional literacy education include
Name that Emotion
For this game prepare
a list of emotion words
that can be cut in pieces. Each person draws one word. The person who can write down the most synonyms is the winner! Or use a mood faces like the one above to name the facial expressions or emotional expressions shown.
The game below is also an excellent way to develop emotional literacy. Click on the EQ chart for more information.


Art Response Emotional Literacy Project
Look at various pictures of photos, famous art works or even advertising. Discuss what types of feeling and emotions you sense from the picture. What are the mood words that come up? Children love this activity.
How are you feeling today?
In this activity each person in the family expresses how they are feeling about a family decision. The key idea is to use as many descriptive words to explain precisely what it is that you are feeling. Modeling this activity first for kids is a great way to start off. For example, "When you help me to take care of the garden I am in a good mood and feel proud and happy."
Emotion Cards
Use emotion cards, that is cards with pictures of emotions or mood faces on them to play various games. For example, ask your child to choose three emotion faces that show how they, themselves are feeling today and share this with the family.
Or you could look through the mood face cards together and decide what emotion the faces are showing.
You can also play games like snap with pairs of the emotion cards matching the same facial expressions.
The important idea in all these games is you are expanding and increasing your child's emotional vocabulary about their feelings and emotions, moods and more.

More
activities can be found here.
Another great way to develop the use of words to describe moods and feelings is to use
bibliotherapy.
Children in today's world can be exposed to so many things:
Bullying
Inappropriate content on electronic media
Divorce
Self Image issues
Violence in the news
Substance abuse
and much more. Developing a way to talk about feelings and emotions is one of the first steps to dealing with such issues."Emotional intelligence, unlike IQ, is not fixed at birth. On the contrary it can, and should, be taught.” Goleman 1995